THE REAL COSTWhat a $350,000 First Home Actually Costs Each Month
The advertised rate is not the monthly payment. Mortgage insurance, property taxes, homeowners insurance, and HOA fees stack on top of principal and interest — and they vary dramatically by loan program. Here is the apples-to-apples breakdown for a $350,000 first home purchase, comparing all five programs on identical credit (720 FICO), identical property (median US home), and a 6.5% market rate.
| Program | Down Payment | Loan Amount | P&I | MI | Est. Total PITI |
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| FHA 3.5% | $12,250 | $337,750 | $2,134 | $216 | $2,775 |
| Conventional 3% | $10,500 | $339,500 | $2,145 | $255 | $2,825 |
| VA 0% (Eligible) | $0 | $350,000 | $2,212 | $0 | $2,637 |
| USDA 0% (Eligible) | $0 | $350,000 | $2,212 | $102 | $2,739 |
| Conventional 20% | $70,000 | $280,000 | $1,769 | $0 | $2,194 |
The cheapest monthly payment goes to the borrower who can put 20% down — but the borrower who actually has $70,000 in cash to put down is rarely the first-time buyer who needs the program in the first place. For most first-time buyers, the real comparison is between FHA, Conventional 3%, and VA (if eligible). The right answer depends on credit score, available cash, and where you plan to live in 5-7 years.
When FHA Wins
FHA wins when your credit score is 580-679. Conventional pricing punishes credit under 680 hard — mortgage insurance can run 1.5x to 2x what FHA charges in that score range. FHA also wins if your down payment is coming entirely from gift funds (relatives, employers, or DPA programs) since FHA accepts 100% gifted down payment while conventional limits gift funds at the 3% minimum.
When Conventional Wins
Conventional wins when your credit score is 700+ and you plan to refinance or sell within 5-7 years. Conventional mortgage insurance drops off automatically at 78% loan-to-value, so when home values appreciate or you pay down the loan, the MI disappears without a refinance. FHA mortgage insurance is permanent unless you refinance into conventional — which costs $4,000-6,000 in closing costs.
When VA Wins
VA wins every time for an eligible borrower. Zero down, no monthly mortgage insurance, and the lowest rate of any program. There is no scenario where an eligible VA borrower should choose FHA or conventional over a VA loan. The only catch is the VA funding fee — 1.4% to 3.6% of the loan amount — which most borrowers finance into the loan.